"PS – I was really sorry to hear aboutThanks for helping me feel freer not to pull it totally together if someone knocks on my door while I'm crying or catches me in a blurry or sudden-onset-teary moment mid-conversation in a parking lot or hallway. , though this is the wrong medium in which to say so. This has probably been the crappiest few months in your entire life, and I’m really sorry about it."
And the rest-of-life challenges haven't happened to go away.
The brights spots are true, too. I'm not lying.
But it is crappy grieving and living at the same time.